I don't think the growing up part is being questioned when it comes to Ray J. It's time for the young women who fall for the fake searching for love on TV crap to wake the hell up and smell the damn coffee. Ray J is stuck on the hit and run affect,that is until he runs into a woman who is intelligent enough to drop his ass to his knee's! I am sorry but Ray J's actions hit close to home; "Because he is exploiting young and confused women; "who are clueless about true love. And if it's about celeb-reality stardom, "There are better ways to get there!.

Ray J needs to grow up and stop looking for what he can't give